Thursday, 19 July 2007

10 really stupid things couples do to mess up their relationships

10 Really Stupid Things Couples Do to Mess Up Their Relationships ~

Now let's talk about relationships. Often in a relationship, there are factors that have been the trigger and cause to bad relationships. And most of them are simply stupid that make them avoidable. So what are they?

1. Stupid Secrets

Withholding important information for fear of rejection

2. Stupid Egotism

Asking not what you can do for the relationship but onlt what the relationship can do for you

3. Stupid Pettiness

Making a big deal out of small matter!

4. Stupid power

Always trying to be in control... Extreme power is corrosive! Either end you'll fail...

5. Stupid Priorities

Consuming all your time and energies with work, hobbies, errands and chores instead of focusing on the relationship

6. Stupid happiness

seeking stimulation and assuarance from all the wrong places to satisfy the immature need to feel good in you!

7. Stupid Exsuses!

Not being accountable for bad behavior

8. Stupid liaisons!!

Not letting fo of negative attachments to friends and relatives who are damaging to your relationship

9. Stupid Mismatch!

NNot knowing when to leave and cut the losses

10. Stupid breakups

disconnecting for all the wrong reasons

I hope you've read all these ten points and can now disconnect most of their essences off your thoughts, so you won't redo such silly things ever again. Or perhaps even for a start. ~.~

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